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Located in Los Angeles, Wry offers professional speaking appearances and private services. Local couples, singles, and extended poly-families are encouraged to book sessions in-person. Alternatively, a session can be conducted via phone, chat, .

As a non-monogamy consultant, consent activist, and public speaker, Wry has hosted panel discussions in Los Angeles, NYC, and San Francisco. In addition to appearances on numerous podcasts, shows, and community events, Wry has given talks at Berkeley, Harvey Mudd, Chapman University, and UCLA. Wry’s experience with non-traditional relationship lifestyles, event coordination, fetish performance, and workshop facilitation has led to the formation of PolyTalks.com. These are panel discussions featuring relationship experts, including well known authors, educators, and therapists. Wry’s PolyTalks are a guided open forum in a Q&A format to discuss polyamory, open relationships, and non-monogamy for the experienced, the novices, and the curious.
As an educator with a wealth of experience (see BIO), Wry brings to his practice a level of personal anecdotes, relationship insight, and dating advice that therapists may not be at liberty to share publicly. See TESTIMONIALS from current and former clients.
In addition to extensive community outreach, participation, and READING, Wry has featured at events with many other sex and relationship experts, researchers, and panelists, absorbing real world wisdom while hosting discussion groups and WORKSHOPS since 2012.

Blunt and irreverent, Wry advocates becoming well informed regarding the options and alternatives to a hetero-normative, traditional love life, as well as maintaining dialogue with partners. The consistent acclaim for his APPEARANCES on college campuses, adult-themed stores, and private venues rings true for his no-nonsense approach and devilish humor (check out the FUNNY MEMES section for a laugh!)
Wry and Wicked appeared at the International Polyamory Conference on the Future of Monogamy and Nonmonogamy, held on Feb 14th,2015 – which was held at The University Of California, Berkeley primarily on these topics during two separate 45 minute talks:
– The Stress and Stigma of Identifying as Polyamorous
– The Intersection of BDSM and Non-Monogamy
If a more balanced gendered experience à la Masters and Johnson, Wry’s girlfriends can join the conversation as well, informing it with a female and couple oriented perspective. They have co-hosted workshops, discussion groups, and joined Wry onstage at speaking APPEARANCES. They bring their own insight, some of which includes being in other relationships with actively non-monogamous men and women.
For info and rates regarding services and/or to book a session, email name & contact info to aWryPerspective@gmail.com
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