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Located in Los Angeles, Wry offers professional speaking appearances and private services. Local couples, singles, and extended poly-families are encouraged to book sessions in-person. Alternatively, a session can be conducted via phone, chat, or Skype.skype-logo-feb_2012_rgb_500

Ryan Witherspoon (second from right), a clinical psychology Ph.D. student at California School of Professional Psychology at AIU, Los Angeles, has been a special guest at several of Wry’s workshop discussion groups. His poly family (from left to right: Ann Conners, Stephanie Witherspoon, Marty Lotspeich) is well versed in the relevant topics as well.
Ryan Witherspoon (second from right), a clinical psychology Ph.D. student at California School of Professional Psychology at AIU, Los Angeles, has been a special guest at several of Wry’s workshop discussion groups. His poly family (from left to right: Ann Conners, Stephanie Witherspoon, Marty Lotspeich) is well versed in the relevant topics as well.

As an educator with a wealth of experience (see BIO), Wry brings to his practice a level of personal anecdotes, relationship insight, and dating advice that therapists may not be at liberty to share publicly. See TESTIMONIALS from current and former clients.

In addition to extensive community outreach, participation,  and READING, Wry has featured at events with many other sex and relationship experts, researchers, and panelists, absorbing real world wisdom while hosting discussion groups and WORKSHOPS since 2012.

Wry performed at Sex Positive LA's Black Tie Bondage Afterparty, featuring his BDSM work with rope and Blaise Wrap polyplastic suspension. Pictured here with author and bondage legend Midori, Hudsy Hawn, Gabriela Cordova, and Johnny White of Stockroom.
Wry at Sex Positive LA’s Black Tie Bondage Afterparty, featuring BDSM, rope bondage, and Blaise Wrap polyplastic suspension. Pictured here with author and bondage legend Midori, Hudsy Hawn, Gabriela Cordova, and Johnny White, formerly of Stockroom.

Blunt and irreverent, Wry advocates becoming well informed regarding the options and alternatives to a hetero-normative, traditional love life, as well as maintaining dialogue with partners. The consistent acclaim for his APPEARANCES on college campuses, adult-themed stores, and private venues rings true for his no-nonsense approach and devilish humor (check out the FUNNY MEMES section for  a laugh!)


Wry and Wicked appeared at the International Polyamory Conference on the Future of Monogamy and Nonmonogamy, held on Feb 14th,2015 – which was held at The University Of California, Berkeley primarily on these topics during two separate 45 minute talks:
– The Stress and Stigma of Identifying as Polyamorous
– The Intersection of BDSM and Non-Monogamy

Wry-Headshot-4bIf a more balanced gendered experience à la Masters and Johnson, Wry’s girlfriends can join the conversation as well, informing it with a female and couple oriented perspective. They have co-hosted workshops, discussion groups, and joined Wry onstage at speaking APPEARANCES. They bring their own insight, some of which includes being in other relationships with actively non-monogamous men and women.

For info and rates regarding services and/or to book a session, email name & contact info to aWryPerspective@gmail.com

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